There is no reason for you to have taken PEP and just so you are aware, pep only works when started within 72 hours from exposure. It's a nasty medication with hard side effects to manage. It's reserved for high risk exposures such as sex with a confirmed HIV positive partner. Your situation does not even warrant discussion of needing PEP, you didn't.
You had no risk. Protected oral even unprotected oral is never a risk. HIV is inactivated by air and saliva. Protected anal or vaginal sex is not a risk. Hand jobs are not a risk, protected or not. Nothing you did is related to HIV transmission and whatever symptoms then would be unrelated to HIV in any way.
Here is how adults get HIV, unprotected vaginal or anal sex (penetrating) or sharing of IV drug needles. You have no reason to worry about HIV, no risk.
You had no risk and don't need PEP or even a test. Oral is zero risk, and if a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam and hangs in tatters so no need for close inspections.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV. No one got HIV from the situation you encountered in 40 years and likely no one will in the next 40 of your life, so there is less likelihood of HIV transmission happening than of you getting hit by a meteor as you read this.