You weren't at risk for transmission. Testing wasn't necessary. Please see a doctor for your ailments, they are unspecific to HIV.
I agree completely that this was of no risk for HIV. Wet humping as you call it will not transmit the virus. There has to be penetration of either the anus or the vagina. So, with no risk, you need not test again or worry. You do not have HIV.
Thank you for your response. I have been told it was a negligible risk. I just want to be sure that even with only a hypothetical risk, the 3rd gen antibody test at 8 to 9 weeks is conclusive. You have brought me more peace of mind. Now to figure out what truly is causing my symptoms which are very alarming.