Hi Doctors, I need your help please.
I had anal sex with a guy 5 days ago, he is the receptive part and I am the insertive part.
I was not fully erected, before the intercourse, the guy lightly touch his penis head on mine, there was some pre-*** transferred, he quickly wiped it out with a paper tissue. Then I put on a comdom, the comdom did not fully cover my whole penis, it was about half the way from the top.
The intercourse lasted about 5 minutes, I ejeculated. After I pulled out, the comdom was not broken, but still it only covers half of my penis. The problem is, the guy wiped his anus with a tissue and found blood on it. I was scared, I don't think there was any blood on my penis, or on the comdom. But I had a small bruised area on my penis where the comdom did not cover. The bruise was from a day before, there was no open cut on it, nor blood was found from the day before, it didn't hurt when water touches the bruise, it also didn't hurt when I press it, in fact I was no aware of this bruise until this session.
I asked him about his status, he said he got tested some 20 days ago and it was negative. But I really cannot be sure about this, as he said he had numerous sex with female, and some with guys (both receptive and insertive roles).
After this event, the very second day, I caught a cold. I monitored my temperature constantly, there was never fever, the area where my nostril meets my throat was aching in the first day but after I took some cold pills it disappeared. Now I am still experiencing the cold symptoms, like fatigue, swollen nostrils, some coughing.
How high is my risk of contracting HIV? I am afraid, and I am scared, especially hae no idea whether I should have sex with my wife.
Thank you so much.