Potential penetration. Am I at risk? PEP?

[trueinfo]

Hi,

Yesterday I met a guy from Internet and we had some mutual masturbation and oral sex. And one point he decided to sit on top of me, being both naked and I started to rub my penis against his butt/ anus for about 15 seconds. I've never had penetrative sex before with anyone so I'm a bit concerned that maybe I penetrated him accidentally.

I asked him and he said I didn't penetrate him, that my penis was really big, but I don't know this guy so I can't trust him.

Shall I ask for PEP?
Thank you very much for your help.

[trueinfo]

Thank you so much to you and everyone in this page, I've been diagnosed with OCD disorder and sometimes my mind tricks me, but as I am an inexpert in sexual activities I wanted to know the opinions of some experts and generous people.

Thank you.

[nursegirl6572]

Of course there would be a big difference in the sensation between frottage (rubbing) and actual penetration.  Your anxious mind is making you question this situation.  We cannot help you with that.  Like teak said, you would know if you penetrated him or not.

IN the future, it would be wise to wear a condom from the start of that kind of activity, because while you didn't penetrate this partner, in the heat of the moment, things happen, and you are better off being safe than sorry.

[trueinfo]

Well, I was only asking because I wanted to know if is there a big difference in rubbing or penetrating in the point of view of the penis sensation, or if it's necessary to push or you can feel some pressure around the penis head.

That's all, thank you.

[Vance2335]

Then only you know that answer not us.

[trueinfo]

I know, this is because I ask, because I think it's possible to maybe penetrate a little bit without noticing it in a moment of passion.

[Teak]

If you have to ask that question, you've never penetrated anyone.

[trueinfo]

But why cannot an accidental penetration occurs? Is there a lot of different in the sensations to distinguish between rubbing and penetrating?

[mikey29287]

No.
The experts advise 28days or more for duo tests.

However, we on the community advise that 3 months is conclusive - according to the official guidelines.

However you had no risk for HIV in this case. You would know if you'd penetrated someone.

[trueinfo]

Hi,

I started to feel bad a couple of days ago, sore throat and headache, can be possible that finally I did penetrate him.

A DUO test is reliable after 22 days?

[trueinfo]

Thank you for your response, maybe I'm overreacting.

[Teak]

You did not penetrate him without knowing. Putting your penis between his cheeks is not penetration.

[trueinfo]

But if I was rubbing his anus maybe I penetrated with the tip of my penis accidentally, he was using lube so Is not a potential risk? Because I'm still in the 72 hours period.

[Teak]

Had you penetrated him you would have known. You didn't have an exposure.