New Risk and worry

[matt397]

I was away and met two guys we just kissed and matubated one had his finger in my bum - this continued and one of the guys came away with me and we doing very much the same he then pulled me toward him and wanted to have sex which I refused he kept rubbing against me and asking the same thing which I refused. I have never done anal sex and keep asking myself was did he get the tip of my  penus in as he rubbed on me does it just go in so easy. He did spit on his hands and played with me also . This was on Nov 14th and I have started with a whole load of problems first thing was a patch on my leg the size of my hand which is numb and continues to be . On the 22nd I felt rough with a bad head ache and on the 23rd it continued to get worse like sinus type headache and my legs and arms felt numb and weak also nautious the following day the same today so far better but maybe a little stomach upset is this the infection part I am really scared. I asked the forum a question some tome ago and the advice was good and I tested fine as the forum told me . In fact they said no risk and I tested to asettle my mind.

[matt397]

Thanks for looking at my post again - do you think I have done anything risky? Do you think the symptoms I am having are more anxiety and just a normal virus. Also would you suggest a test

Sorry Teak to ask this of you

Matt

[Teak]

NO.

[matt397]

Thanks but one final question if the two guys had been sucking and rimming and i kissed them does that alter my risk.

Matt

[lanvin]

don't let symptoms dictate anything....use logic and risk factor....you didn't have a risk. You are being paranoid, no anal , entering or recieving would go unnoticed.

[matt397]

Getting scared now just woke up with night sweat plus all my other symptoms its is getting worse

[matt397]

Thanks again sorry to ask

[NickOne7]

I was not there when this happened so you will need to make that call, but I can tell you that if you are penatrating someone you WOULD know. The rest is up to you. BUT as I said it is something you would feel and know

[matt397]

Thanks Nick for helping - you dont think i could of entered him and not known - minds playing overtime with this am sorry to keep going on . Just not use to young guys wanting people to have sex with them without regard to themselves or others

[NickOne7]

NOTHING you have described ever put you at risk of contracting HIV. As advised above anal sex is something you would feel for sure. You have nothing to worry about in regards to HIV infection and do not need testing.

Hope this helps

[matt397]

another thing I have had a hemeroid would that be a risk when the guy touched my bum

[lanvin]

Kising is not a risk.

[matt397]

I tried to be responsable to not get into a risky situation - I didnt know because having never done anal how easy it could be - I also have splits in my tongue for some time they dont bleed but could this be a kissing risk

Matt

[lanvin]

anal is not easy to do, it takes time and effort and lots of lube! Its not something that goes unnoticed.

[matt397]

Thanks for your reply its just all the things I am feeling look so muck like the list of things you can get with the first infection. As for the knowing bit I am certain but you start asking yourself the mind is cruel plus I dont know how easy anal is to do (enter )

Matt

[lanvin]

If there was no unprotected nal penetration you had no risk from the other activities. I think you would noticed .