Thanks alot . So I return normal to my wife
You can't get HIV from kissing someone's cheek. And HIV is not diagnosed by something like a swollen lymph node. EVERYTHING from a common cold, to covid, to any type of infection activates lymph nodes. The ONLY ways people get HIV is to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or to share IV drug needles. Kissing is never a way. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Unless you do one of the three things mentioned, you never have to worry about HIV. ZERO risk.