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givin oral to a female unprotected

hello
i recently had a sexual encounter with a call girl in las vegas.
i had spent a night of drinking and had chapped lips and smoked a lot of cigarettes.
we had  protected sex , and she gave me a blowjob with a condom.
i gave her oral sex for about 2 minutes or less without protection.
When i returnd home i develloped a coldsore a few days later on my lip.
I am terrified that i caught HIV and that my life is over .
when i got back  my mouth was very clammy and i had a sore throat,  i had a no lesions in my mouth but it felt like my tongue was swollen .
Now i feel like i have nausea and a little fatigue the coldsore is going away and i have a little tingle on my uper lip. but i am extremly worried.
PLEASE HELP  ANYBODY .
sorry for my english and the long question .
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186166 tn?1385259382
your doctor or health clinic.  self diagnosing is never a good thing.
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I aologize
i was not fully aware , i thank you for all your help  .
maybe you could recommend somewhere or someone who could help

please reply
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186166 tn?1385259382
this forum is hiv specific...
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Thank you for your quick reply .
i am trying to put my mind at ease .
i appreciate you taking the time to answer me .
may i ask you about coldsores  ,
how long after the coldsore is healed can u kiss someone without passing them the virus ?   and if you dont see the sore is it still actively there .  how does that work
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186166 tn?1385259382
i cant tell you why other sites still state that outdated information...all i can tell you is that hiv is NOT transmitted through oral sex.

see your doctor if you are having health concerns...it's not hiv related.
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Sorry for the bother
but may i ask you , why i have read online that there is some type of possibility of contracting hiv virus from giving oral to a woman.
also do u believe that performing oral sex on that woman caused the oral labial herpes.
aswell as why am i feeling so tired and stomach is a little upside down
please respond you seem like you have much information on these subjects .

thank you .
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186166 tn?1385259382
that describes a DRY mouth...ANXIETY related.

kindly move on...you do not have a hiv concern.
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hey Lizzie Lou
it was like my mouth was very sticky , like a  glue  also the back of my tongue  was irritated
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186166 tn?1385259382
nothing that you have described put you at risk for hiv.

i HAVE TO ask though...what is a CLAMMY mouth?
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