had a protected sex with someone who is sex worker but sexually active

[yoyoyo12]

hi i have had sex with a woman with status unknown. but she claims she is highly sexually active. so basically i had sex with her 4 times. last two times she has asked me to stay put after ejaculating. i was in her for more than 2 mins less than 5 mins. both the times my condom slipped through half away and it came out effortlessly. later when i water checked those condoms after day. i was able to find a pin size hole on the three of the condoms. i have already started with pep at 26th hour mark from the first time i had sex.

so i have few basic information with me
the last time she had sex with a guy apart from me is on 25/01/2024 today being 5/02/2024
the last time i got tested was last year which came out negative. only had protected sex.

[yoyoyo12]

i am really sorry for the typo the person wasnt a sex worker

[AnxiousNoMore]

If a condom fails during sex, it rips wide down the seam.
Pin holes are a myth so you must have made mistakes when you tested - or else someone poked holes in 2 condoms. Did you supply the condoms or did she?

[AnxiousNoMore]

"my condom slipped through half away and it came out effortlessly" It is unclear to me what you are explaining.Only the head needs protection so if the head was covered through the sex then the slip doesn't matter because the ring at the bottom of the condom prevents fluid exchange.  

[yoyoyo12]

i have supplied the condoms. but she wore it to me. so basically, I know it was wrong on my part after having sex with her to think bad. what if she punctured it with a pin hole? would I still fall under the risk of hiv? they were tiny holes on three of the condoms

[AnxiousNoMore]

You supplied the condom so she didn't have a chance to poke holes in it. Maybe the holes are in your imagination?

[yoyoyo12]

coming to your 2nd doubt. so basically after me ejaculating. she has asked me to stay put my dick in her vagina. i did so for two mins or three mins. i have noticed my dick would shrink in size which made the condom to slip till half away of my dick when i removed it. my tip was still in the condom. but it came out effortlessly with no effort what so ever when i was removing the condom from the dick.

[yoyoyo12]

i have seen with my own eyes water coming out of them when squeezed when the water was inside the condoms.

[GuitarRox]

To be clear, she uses a condom to protect herself against YOU a person that frequents sex workers. She views you as the threat to HER health and not the other way around as you are a customer of csw's. Putting you in a category of offering risk to HER. It's not reasonable or logical to suspect that someone puts holes in condoms. That's pure out of control anxiety.

Second, hiv is NOT spread through little holes in a condom and those ARE a myth. I don't care what you say you saw, that's not what happens during intercourse. Period. And besides that ONLY the head of your penis needs to be covered.

We aren't here to keep appeasing you from overchuring anxity disordered thinking. Please talk to a doctor about how to work through your anxiety. You know the risks now, you didn't have one.

[GuitarRox]

Also, I see you say she wasn't a sex worker. But for some reason you are suspecting she puts holes in condoms. That's an unreasonable assertion. Try to work on the anxiety so these types of irrational thoughts don't plague you.