Hello,I’m male from China, thanks for this great website, and sorry for any error in my written English.
In July last year, I had a unprotected oral sex with a man met in internet, I was the insertive, he sucked me a few times then I cum by his handjob.
In Sep , I had another experience: with another guy that I met in internet, we had a French kiss, then shower together, but his precum touched my head of penis. We had a unprotected oral sex, I was the insetrive. We also had a protected anal sex with a Durex “Extra safe” condom, and I was the top, We didn’t have any lube handy,so we used lots of his spit. Because I was very nervous , I cum less than one minutes. The condom seemed intact, because I saw all the semen was in the condom.
In Nov, I red some document about HIV and I was really scared, Suddenly I found a little headache and sore throat, even painful in my left arm, and all of this lasted about 2 weeks.
Now I am very very worry, I really need ur help. Am I at risk for HIV? Do I need to get a test?