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Unprotected oral and protected anal sex

Hello,I’m male from China, thanks for this great website, and sorry for any error in my written English.

In July last year, I had a unprotected oral sex with a man met in internet, I was the insertive, he sucked me a few times then I cum by his handjob.

In Sep , I had another experience: with another guy that I met in internet, we had a French kiss, then shower together, but his precum touched my head of penis. We had a unprotected oral sex, I was the insetrive. We also had a protected anal sex with a Durex “Extra safe” condom, and I was the top, We didn’t have any lube handy,so we used lots of his spit. Because I was very nervous , I cum less than one minutes. The condom seemed intact, because I saw all the semen was in the condom.

In Nov, I red some document about HIV and I was really scared, Suddenly I found a little headache and sore throat, even painful in my left arm, and all of this lasted about 2 weeks.

Now I am very very worry, I really need ur help.  Am I at risk for HIV? Do I need to get a test?
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Condoms dont get tiny holes in them, they are designed to break wide open. Also preseminal fluid is not infectious outside of the body. HIV is a fragile virus and is deactivated quickly by things like touch, temp changes and things like that.
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If condoms when used correctly didn't protect against HIV the whole world would be infected by now.Please,you need to use some common sense when reading such nonsense.
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Thanks Vance, but during this months, I searched alot of information from Chinese med net, and someone told condom was not perfect for preventing HIV, because maybe it broken(Tiny hole) but we couldn't notice. And someone said precum touch was dangerous, it will get into body through the urethral orifice.
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You did not have a risk from protected sex nor did you have a risk from unprotected oral sex.
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