hello,
i am dying from anxiety from my exposure.
i am male 36 years, visited a massage parlor in Paris, where a chinese masseur gave me a chinese massage (she was clothed and i was naked).
while i was on my stomach, she was massaging my butt area suddenly inserted her finger deeply in to my anus for 3 to 5 seconds (several times), till i asked her to stop.
she offered me a handjob but i refused and did it myself.
my question is:
1) what is the risk from this exposure?
2) i had diarrhea a few hours before this massage, does this increase the risk?
3) i saw her fingers, and it seems ok with no cut, but what if there were cuts?
4) do i need to test?
5) did it ever happen that one catches HIV or STD from fingering in anus?
6) i have a mild pain in anus due to this action still a few days after the exposure? is that normal especially because it is my first (and last) time?
thank you so much