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semi-protected oral at massage parlor - scared to death
I am a newbie on this forum so please go light with me if my question is dumb.
This past Sunday, I lost my head and went to an asian massage parlor in SF bay area. The attendant was an older lady, in her 40s I would say. After a brief massage I lost my head and went for a protected oral to be performed on me. The attendant could barely speak english but excused herself to leave the room, I believe to get a condom. When she returned i didnt see a condom package in her hand. She had a towel folded in her hand. I imagine it was in there. She then proceeded to give me a handjob and soon after whipped out a condom that was already out of the package, which freaks me out as I dont know whether she opened it from a package outside the room before bringing it in or whether it was a previously used condom. How often does this happen at these places?
Anyhow, she quickly proceeded to put the condom on me with her mouth and because she was working me with her hand pretty fast I came within 3-5 seconds of her putting her mouth over my penis. There wasnt even enough time for her to get the condom on fully before I came. I recall that my fluid leaked out of the condom and I don't know whether it was because the condom wasnt fully on or whether it was used and hence broken.
I ran to the washroom to clean myself off. I washed my penis in the sink and then showered when I got home.
This was this past Sunday afternoon. Since then I have been feeling uneasy with some nightsweats, tingling sensations around my face and feet and my GI tract seems to be off as I am a bit gasy. I also feel like a bit of a sore throat/cough is coming on. Its day4 since the episode and I am terrified about HIV.
Can someone please assess my situation about the risk and whether if the condom was previously used how much of a risk I have of catching HIV. I appreciate your help.
This past Sunday, I lost my head and went to an asian massage parlor in SF bay area. The attendant was an older lady, in her 40s I would say. After a brief massage I lost my head and went for a protected oral to be performed on me. The attendant could barely speak english but excused herself to leave the room, I believe to get a condom. When she returned i didnt see a condom package in her hand. She had a towel folded in her hand. I imagine it was in there. She then proceeded to give me a handjob and soon after whipped out a condom that was already out of the package, which freaks me out as I dont know whether she opened it from a package outside the room before bringing it in or whether it was a previously used condom. How often does this happen at these places?
Anyhow, she quickly proceeded to put the condom on me with her mouth and because she was working me with her hand pretty fast I came within 3-5 seconds of her putting her mouth over my penis. There wasnt even enough time for her to get the condom on fully before I came. I recall that my fluid leaked out of the condom and I don't know whether it was because the condom wasnt fully on or whether it was used and hence broken.
I ran to the washroom to clean myself off. I washed my penis in the sink and then showered when I got home.
This was this past Sunday afternoon. Since then I have been feeling uneasy with some nightsweats, tingling sensations around my face and feet and my GI tract seems to be off as I am a bit gasy. I also feel like a bit of a sore throat/cough is coming on. Its day4 since the episode and I am terrified about HIV.
Can someone please assess my situation about the risk and whether if the condom was previously used how much of a risk I have of catching HIV. I appreciate your help.
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Vance2335, I have read it. Its just that the possibility of what I describe about the contamination that has me freaked out. I never saw her open the condom (she didnt do that inside the room) so I dont know whether its new and the fact my fluids leaked out concerns me that it might have been used/broken.
I think I am losing my mind. The symptoms continue as its day 8 since event. How early can ARS systems appear? Things started at day 3-4 and have become worse. I barely could keep my eyes open yesterday but not sleepy today (yet).
Moreover, my mouth/throat has that taste you get when you are sick (flemy).
I was reading something Dr. Hook said about a situation where the condom was flipped and possibly had contaminated fluids and said there was a small risk. So if the condom she used on me was contaminated then this is a similar situation. But no one here comments on that part? I appreciate your help.
Moreover, my mouth/throat has that taste you get when you are sick (flemy).
I was reading something Dr. Hook said about a situation where the condom was flipped and possibly had contaminated fluids and said there was a small risk. So if the condom she used on me was contaminated then this is a similar situation. But no one here comments on that part? I appreciate your help.
Yes, stress and anxiety can produce all of your symptoms. I experienced similar symptoms when I was waiting for the results of a medical test. It is a common phenomenon especially on this forum.
I have many many times. Then what is the cause of what I am feeling? there is a major difference between last week and this week. I know stress and anxiety might play a role but can it be 100% of it?
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