I think you are doing a amazing job.
So i sucked the breasts of a SW in China and they had oil on the breasts, can i get hiv from the lube that went in my mouth?
You won't get HIV that way. The only way adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse or sharing of IV drug needles. Air and saliva inactivate the virus so lube or not, you would not get it from this activity.
GR has already answered your question to the point. Please read the response again, if you failed to understand it at the first time. Adding any "what-ifs" to this will not get you any change in response.