worried.

[internet99]

hello,a friend of mine wants you give him some advise,thanks! pls read the following words.

Thanks for your attention,i am a 25 year old man who come from China,on 6.5,i had a unprotected oral sex and protected vagina sex with a prostitute,in the process,because i did not feel well,so the condom fall off,then change a new condom.on 6.14,i had a protected oral sex and protected vagina sex with another prostitute twice,but i found the condom cover my penis after ejaculation.a few days later,my body appear a series of symptom(Cold, fever,nasal obstruction,guttural inflammation,mandibular lymph node swollen,headache,blurred vision,tetter,skin itch,night sweat and so on),i eat some antibiotics,but it did not work,the symptom sustain approximately two weeks,then improve,im so scared.after the latest exposure,33 days later,i go to hospital for a hiv test(CLIA) negative,43 days later,a test(ELISA) negative,56 days later a test(CLIA) and treponema pallidum TP-ELISA negative.

my question below:

1)am i at high risk?
2)could i exclude any risk on the basis of the detection results?
3)am i need review after 3 months later?
4)is the all symptom belong to HIV infect?could i start the new life?

thanks all of you !

[LIZZIE LOU]

either one will do

[Woooo]

thank you,the last question,in Medical science,3 months mean 12 weeks or 13 weeks(90 days)?

[RobertToms8822]

Ok, let me get this straight,  

You had a condom on during the entire time you were having intercourse right? (This means you never had your bare penis in her vagina) If you answer yes to this than you had protected sex and you are NOT at risk for HIV.  If you are worried about fluid exchange during the condom change this is as well Zero Risk for HIV.

Hope this clears everything up for you

[Woooo]

thanks for helping me. this is my question.
My penis was not exposed inside the woman directly .because i drank,during the process of having sex, my penis weak,then i put off my penis out of the woman,while my penis was still wearing the condom,so she took off it and change a new one.
i m very scared now,and i have so many symptoms after the exposure,pls help me.

[RobertToms8822]

First off - ORAL SEX is not a risk for contracting HIV

In answer to your questions:

(1) NO
(2) IF the condom "Fell" off as in not covering the head of your penis while inside of the vagina then you need to test at 3 months (90 days) from your last exposure. A 56 day NEG test is a good indicator of your status but only 100% at the 3 month mark.
(3)Test at 3 months or there after - If you test at 3 months you will not need further testing.
(4) Symptoms NEVER indicate infection. There are 100's of more common illnesses that mimic HIV symptoms. Anxiety is the number 1 issue that makes you have these symptoms.    

Hope this helps