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******* rceived and deep kissing with cuts in the mouth

so this afternoon I had an encounter with a friend I have known for almost 8 months now and known about her over 3 years. she performed a blowjob on me a couple of time and we deep kissed while I a fresh but biting my inner cheek at the time of having my afternoon meal. there was no vaginal or anal intercourse at all. body rubbing etc yes..no intercourse.. I have started to feel feverish and a stiff throat with pulls in my glands at intervals since eve. what are my chances of being safe and do i need to test? Please please please help
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Consider your self lucky because there never was a risk to begin with. Your risk was zero and I say that with confidence.

If you are feeling ill then it probably has to do with over stress or viral infection, not HIV. Perhaps, a mono.

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Please please nursegirl
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what about genitals rubbing and precum?
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please please please
Again, we're not here constantly, please exercise some patience and self control.




..while I you said there is no risk I assume this is regardless to the girl's HIV status and also can put this behind me without an iota of doubt that this was risky in any way and move on with my married life WITHOUT being tested? Please help for last time.. Thanks for the previous answer .

Yes, that is right.  NO risk for HIV, no need for testing.  You may want to get tested for other STDs, although your risk wouldn't be very high.  Any questions relating to non-HIV STDs should be asked on our STD forum, if you want your risk assessed there.

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/98
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please please please
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I am sorry for being impatient and repeatedly posting for help. I am a married guy and not someone who indulges into sexual activity outside of marriage..but this happened..while I you said there is no risk I assume this is regardless to the girl's HIV status and also can put this behind me without an iota of doubt that this was risky in any way and move on with my married life WITHOUT being tested? Please help for last time.. Thanks for the previous answer
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Relax.  There isn't someone here 24/7.  You must be patient.

Kissing is NEVER a RISK FOR hiv, even with the presence of cuts/ulcers.  Oral sex is not a risk either.  You didn't have a risk at all for HIV.
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