Hi Sami,
I was glad to see in your follow up post that your mom is at stage 1, also known as f-1, of liver damage. That is much better than being at stage 4, or f-4 (Cirrhosis). Being at stage 1 increases her chances of clearing the virus through treatment and decreases the likelihood of her having complications with her liver during her treatment.
I'm not sure what you meant in your first post when you said that your mom has the worst strain of Hep C virus. Some genotypes are harder to treat than others, but so far as I know, all genotypes of Hep C virus cause liver damage.
I'm glad to hear that your mom is taking charge of her health and working with a doctor that she trusts to treat her Hep C virus. I'm not sure if she is under the care of a general internist, a gastroenterologist, or a hepatologist, but hopefully it is a doctor who has a lot of experience in treating Hep C.
It sounds as though your mom will be doing triple therapy with Incivek, which means that your mom probably has genotype 1. Genotype 1 is the one of the more common genotypes of the Hep C virus here in the U.S. It is difficult to treat, but the good news is that your mom is living in the best time period in history for treating Hep C, Genotype 1.
I know that when my husband was first diagnosed with Hep C in 2007, I was afraid. It was a lot of new information to try to absorb. One of the ways that I tried to calm myself down was by studying and finding out a lot of information about Hep C. Some of the information was interesting and some of it was scary.
I think that one of the best things you can do to support your mom now that she's made the decision to treat her virus is to try to empower her to make the best decisions that she can for her own health. Empower her to be her own advocate. Be there for her, offer her support and encouragement, and let her know that you love her. Know ahead of time that there will be good times and bad times through her treatment. Your anxiety and fear may be high because she is so far away from you, so you will need to do everything you can to be positive for your mom. It will likely be hard for you to watch (even from a distance) her struggle with the treatment (she'll probably be very fatigued, nauseous, uncomfortable, and otherwise not feel well), but you can support her by encouraging her and reminding her that side effects that are a problem today may not be a problem tomorrow. Every day is different, and side effects come and go. Overall though, the first 12 weeks will probably be one of the most difficult experiences of your mom's life. Again, you can advocate for your mom best by listening, encouraging, and supporting. If she feels that you are afraid or stressed about her treatment, it will add additional stress for her.
Another thing that you should realize is that Hep C treatment can cause anxiety, irritability, and depression. The medications are very tough and the treatment is very tough, so, again, expect that your mom will have days when she feels like quitting, feels discouraged, feels hopeless, or feels irritable. The best way you can support your mom, is by staying positive and supportive. Remember, tomorrow is always another day and side effects come and go.
Based on my husband's experience, I would say that the most difficult side effects of triple therapy with Incivek are: rash, anal/rectal pain, nausea, and anemia. Other difficult side effects are fatigue, anxiety/depression/irritability, bad taste/metallic taste in mouth, and flu like symptoms. Most of these side effects are manageable with both prescription and over the counter medications, but it is important to stay on top of the side effects. I strongly recommend that your mom prepare by having a lot of things at home ready to help with the side effects, as she may not feel like going out on some days.
I gathered ideas from other members of this forum and posted them in my journals. Here are the links:
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/333000/Incivek-Take-with-20-grams-of-fat
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/333004/Incivek--Ideas-for-Managing-Rash
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/333064/Incivek--Ideas-for-dealing-with-anal-rectal-pain-or-bleeding
http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/334433/Hep-C-treatment--dry-mouth--metallic-taste-in-mouth
Sami, remember, your mom will probably be only handle one thing at a time. This is a very overwhelming treatment.
I agree with Idyllic that it would be great if there were someone who could come to your mom's house and check on her every few days if at all possible, someone who might be able to help with some light housekeeping, grocery shopping, or driving her to doctor appointments/lab work.
I also agree that it would be great if your mom would post on this forum so that she can establish a circle of support from people who have gone through or are going through the same treatment that she is going through. She may feel very alone right now and may need some extra support. She may find it hard to share with you how difficult her treatment is at some point, because she may not want to scare you or worry you, so it would be good for her to have another support system available as well.
Keep in touch with us and let us know how your mom is doing. Best wishes to her!
Advocate1955