Hi,
I am very anxious about a large red bump that I found at the bottom of my scrotum, it is close to where my legs rub together.
A bit of background, I had sex once about 11 years ago and I had gotten a full std pal done and everything was negative. I never had any strange bumps or anything come up from that incident. Since then, I only received handjobs, which I believe is no risk for any std. The last handjob I received was about a month ago.
I noticed a bit of pain about a week and a half ago at the bottom of my scrotum where my legs chaff . Prior to the pain I did notice was a lot of sweat between my legs and it was very itchy at the time. I will be honest at that time my hygiene was not the best due to some personal stress. Now a week and half has passed since the initial pain and I noticed that the small bump that looked like a pimple has increased in size significantly and looks pink. The bump is still a bit painful, and is still one large bump. It looks like there might be three white dots on the top.
I get a lot of anxiety about these things. My understanding is that I have very very low risk of herpes if I only receive handjobs. I dont know how I got to this point but I honestly want to get my life back together and stop living with some much anxiety.
Any guidance on if this is something to be concerned about would be greatly appreciated, I just really need some assurance.
I honestly feel I know I need to do a lot of work on myself mentally and physically. Just want to go back to simpler times.
I just want to be ok.