Certainly doesn’t sound like HSV to me. I’m wondering if maybe a bit of anxiety is playing a role in this? Once we fall down the rabbit hole of googling everything, we start to feel sensations that I have been there all along but we thought nothing of them. The genital area gets random itches and tingles. Nothing you mentioned sounds like HSV. Doesn’t sound like you’ve had in any swollen lymph nodes or any weird discharge and you haven’t had any sores. The bumps on your penis could very easily be fordyce spots, Which every person has but sometimes they become more noticeable when were messing around with the area. Keep using the cream as your doctor recommended. Don’t use any lotions on your man bits. Most lotions have some type of fragrance in them. The genital skin is sensitive. It doesn’t need lotion. You might get a little dry from the steroid cream but if that’s the case, use coconut oil. Pure coconut oil. Not a lotion. If you notice any worry some marks or sores, not a general white bump, then go to the doctor and have it looked at. I think you’re worrying because maybe you feel a little bit of guilt or shame attached to the activity. There’s no reason to feel shame. Your normal person who maybe should take a step back from sexual activity until you’re ready. If somebody tries to pressure you into something, say no thanks. Don’t have time for that headache.