Hi I am looking for guidance on my actual potential exposure risks. I messed up really bad 7 days ago. I got way too drunk with a friend and ended up at a massage parlor where I had protected sex with a condom with the masseuse. I am in a long term committed relationship and am terrified I will give something to her. I can’t believe I did this. We have been having problems, but I never saw myself doing this kind of thing. I’ve never cheated on her before. The only symptoms I’ve had is frequent urination the 2 days after and a slight burning/tingling in the tip of my penis. Both of these symptoms I am not sure if I am making up in my head. I also am obsessively checking my genitals for sores so I think that is causing pain, although I am not sure if that’s the cause. What has me freaking out the most is what I’ve read on the internet about having HSV2 and no symptoms at all. My question is how common is it to have no obvious symptoms and still end up having hsv2? I’m hoping a medical professional can help me with figuring out how likely it is I contracted HSV2. I paid for a blood test 2 days after, not knowing how long I was supposed to wait. I am already HsV1 positive so I am also wondering will already having hsv1 antibodies allow me to show antibodies sooner in a hsv2 blood test? I want to get tested again in 4 weeks. I’m so worried about giving something to my partner. I keep putting off sex with her but I don’t know how long I can put it off because she wants to engage but if I tell her what I did my relationship will be over. Everything I’ve read online says that condoms offer barely any protection against Herpes. That being said, is it a big likelihood I have contracted HSV2? Sorry for all the questions I am having daily nervous breakdowns over this. I am so ashamed of myself. Thank you