I am a 24 year old female. Last year I was horrified to discover I had contracted genital herpes from a long time partner. Not only that, but recently (by culture) I was found to have somehow spread the herpes to my armpits, breasts, wrist, and foot. I had been taking EVERY precaution to prevent this. Yesterday I got confirmation that I have ocular herpes(corneal). I don't understand how this could happen. I was always told by doctors and forums that auto inoculation is rare. I don't understand! Help! I am terrified of unknowingly spreading this to my child!