I've recently started dating someone with HSV (not sure yet which strain). He had his first outbreak about six months ago and has not had another since. He is on daily suppressive therapy with Valtrex. While we've been very careful (in my view), our chests and waists have touched with our shirts off (and my panties and his boxer shorts on). Our thighs have also grazed each other, and my thigh area maybe have briefly grazed his approximate groin area (only for a split-second), when I was straddling his legs giving him manual pleasure (the only thing I've felt comfortable doing). I gave him this hand job, then washed my hands immediately afterward. But I also realized I had a scabbed over small cut on my palm (really a pinch from my curling iron) later. Now, I'm kind of freaking out that I could have contracted something from asymptomatic shedding. I don't want to go overboard with worry, but should I avoid all further contact with his waist (our bodies touching with shirts off) and thighs? What if they press up against each other in bed accidentally sometime during the night when I'm unaware? Is it this dangerous for me to contract it? I do not want to treat him like a leper. I feel bad enough as it is being so overly careful and concerned, but from what I'm reading, I haven't been safe enough. I only started dating him in the last month, so opportunities for contact have been very low, but what should I do? I know I don't love him yet. I cannot be intimate. Should I just break up with him? Is it possible I'm already infected now? Any advice is very appreciated. Thank you.