I had sex at an asian massage parlor in Houston. the CSW put the condom on with her mouth, then had protected vaginal. I specifically tried to not make groin contact with her and so I held my penis during penetration to buffer from general groin contact. She then removed the condom with her hands and immediately proceeded with an aggressive handjob. I think she probably transferred vaginal fluids while removing the condom. I'm worried this is how the exposure happened.
About 14 days later, i got a sore throat and my groin is itching. It also seemed like I was peeing more frequently, and sometimes there was a slight burn when i started, but generally not really significant pain while urinating. Then a few days later my anus was really itchy and i looked and noticed that there was a white area. It looked like soft mucosal tissue and was a cloudy white, somewhat like an ulcer, but I couldn't see any raised bumps or fluid. Its hard to get a clear picture. It is definitely different than the rest of the skin around my anus though. Could this actually be a mild and shallow presentation of herpes and just difficult to see the typical circular lesions? There is now a constant burning/itching at my anus.