Recently went to a strip club and while fully clothed, the stripper simulated oral sex on my penis over my jeans...if she had a cold sore, is there an hsv risk to me? Can hsv from her mouth pass through clothing?
No, that's part of the whole "not going through clothing" part.
You had no risk.
Did you read the article?
Herpes is only transmitted by direct, unclothed, skin to skin contact - oral to oral (kissing), oral to genital (oral sex), genital to genital, or genital to anal.