Most people are infected with hsv1. Are you sure you are not? Also, the virus can't just simply be laid on the skin. In adults, it typically must be massaged into the skin in order for transmission to occur.
Discordant couples can go years and even a lifetime without transmission occurring. This is anecdotal, but I am hsv1 negative and I was married for 15 years. My partner was hsv1 positive, experienced regular outbreaks and we kissed and had oral sex all the time without transmission occurring.
as an adult, oral herpes is almost exclusively transmitted through romantic type kisses, not social pecks. You aren't likely to contract hsv1 from this