ok so about two weeks ago while i was home i had intercourse, with a female i thought i knew since a long time ago, and about four days later, i noticed a weird feeling on my upper lip, and got really scared, because it looked like an outbreak. I started doing research, and about soiled myself when i saw that it looked like a herpes outbreak, I kept doing research, and i comforted myself when i saw that it also looked like Fordyce's condition. As days went by, it kept getting a little bigger, and bigger, then it started to scab up, it turned to a really dark purple color almost black, and the crust got smaller and smaller. It is now gone after i kind of peeled my little scab off, and to my suprise it looked normal. What made me freak out the most was that about two days ago, as i was tired from work i rubbed my neck, and noticed a small pea sized ball on the back of my neck, around my left ear, just below my hair line. I thought it was just stress, but it kept bothering me, so i decided to look it up and noticed it was close to where it shows the lymph glands are, now I'm really freaking out, because swollen lymph glands are a symptom of HSV1. Any suggestions or comments?