Hello,
I was with my ex-girlfriend from 2007 and she may have had two partners in the past and I had one. I'm pretty sure I'm clean for STD's and I'm not sure about her, but I know her well enough that she would have told me.
Anyway, she gave me oral sex and then I did anal on her for the first time for both of us. Keep in mind, this is my first time having sex orally (in 1.5 years) and anally (first ever). I used a condom and we didn't have lubricant so we used spit. It was hard to get in, but we finally managed. After the long night, I noticed for the next few days, that the upper head of my penis was bright red, looking almost like it could have been a burn or that I may have contracted some sort of STD. It's been 3 days now and the red seems to have subsided a tiny bit, but not by a lot.
When I go to the bathroom, it doesn't burn when I urinate, nor do I feel the need to go to the bathroom every 2 seconds. Also, my urine looks fine as well.
I'm just wondering. What does everyone think of this? Do you think I could have gotten something or is probably just a fraction burn?