Hi - I am new to this website and forum and have come here because I am so confused with all the information regarding STDs. I initially posted this in the STD forum but was asked to post it here instead.
Basically my question is related to STDs in general - but more specifically, Herpes and Genital Warts (for the sake of argument can we pls assume that Herpes is an STD).
I have read that with both Herpes and Genital Warts, someone can still contract these infections through sexual contact with a carrier of these viruses - EVEN IF the carrier displays NO symptoms.
In fact, the carrier MAY NOT EVEN BE AWARE they are a carrier, and STILL pass on the virus.
I have also read that a condom may not be enough to protect a man as Herpes and Genital Warts are transmitted by skin-to-skin contact.
So, in relation to the above, my questions specifically are:
1. Is a man at risk of an STD (including Herpes and Genital Warts) by receiving oral sex and/or engaging in vaginal penetration with a woman (sexual worker or otherwise) if he wears a condom?
For example, if the woman makes oral contact with a man's genital area (apart from the penis with condom) is there a chance of Herpes being transmitted through oral contact with the scrotum and surrounding area?
And the same with Genital Warts - what is the risk level in this scenario? What exactly is the type of skin-to-skin contact that lends itself to a risk of infection - and which the condom is unable to protect against?
2. Is there any risk from French kissing? e.g. - if a woman has oral herpes / or any other STD (but either doesn't know she has or isn't showing any symptoms), can that be transmitted to a man via French kissing?
3. Do these or any STD viruses reside in any other parts of the body (apart from mouth and genitals)? Could a man get infected in any way by exposing his tongue to the breast area / nipples / buttocks / inner thighs or other parts of the female body.
4. If the woman touches her genitals and then touches the man's genital area, is there a risk of passing any infection here?
My apologies in advance if these questions seem immature or "basic". I have only seen contradictory information which is confusing and all Im trying to do is get educated so I can make better informed decisions with a general understand of the risks involved.
Thank you very much
ps - when I ask "is there a risk", Im sure there is always a risk - so all Im trying to understand is the degree of risk....