Annie is correct - oral hsv1 is very common. It also doesn't cause white splotches on your tongue.
If you didn't have any mouth to mouth contact with the lady, whatever is happening to your tongue is not from the encounter. See your doctor or dentist if it lingers.
You are asking if oral sex can give you genital HSV1? Yes, it can, but HSV1 is very common, people often have it since childhood. It is more likely you've had it a long time.