I recently visited an erotic massage parlor. I was careful to avoid any genital-to-genital contact, but noticed that the girl (who was fully naked) was grinding her genitals against my upper thigh as she straddled it during the massage session. At a later point she also sat on my stomach, meaning my bare skin rubbed against her genitals as well. I did not see any open sores, but I also wasn’t really looking/checking. I do not have any open sores in any of the areas described.
I assume the skin on my thighs and stomach are thicker and that there is little or no risk of exposure to the skin-to-skin STDs (herpes, HPV). However, I’ve also read on these forums that the “boxer shorts area”
is the at-risk zone for herpes exposure, and wonder if that might include my thighs.
Bottom line: is it possible to contract herpes or HPV through incidental contact between her exposed genitals and my thighs or stomach? Are the thighs in particular an at-risk region for STD transmission, particularly given that herpes sores can appear on the thighs?