If it was a cold sore and you did infect your boyfriend he most likely would've had an outbreak on his penis 3-10 (rarely up to twenty days) after exposure. I doubt he was infected as iit's been 6 weeks. I recommend calling your Dr's office and state your concerns and timing is a real issue. If they can't get you in find another Dr that cares about your well being.
Another peice of advice is for both of you to get tested together so you know where you stand
Good luck with your Dr and keep me posted please.
If it doesn't progress into lesions or paper cuts then I wwouldn't be to worried.
Yes test do miss hsv1 but are you sure they were cold sores that you had? Another thing to consider is if you do have an established hsv oral infection it would be rare to get it on the genitals later.
I understand your concerns. At six weeks post exposure with no symptoms you can be very confident your boyfriend did not contract hsv1 on his genitals.
Herpes lesions last 10-14 days on average. Never just a day or two. If it looks like a pimple that doesn't progress into a fluid filled blister or has a hair in it then it's not hsv. Pimples and agrivated hair follicles are common.
Very very small if any. If you gave him genital hsv1 he would know it. A new hsv1 genital infection almost always has a classic primary outbreak. Like I said in my comments above" you can be very confident your boyfriend did not contract hsv1"
Yes if you do have it orally it wont ping pong off him back to you. Hsv1 has fewer recurring outbreaks and sheds much less than hsv2.
If your still worried ask him to get tested. If he does show pos for hsv1 them my thought would be he has a lomg term oral infection from childhood.
They are not hsv. You need to relax a bit. Everything is not hsv. Please try and relax and think about everything rationally. I know you're stressed but you need to realize you are doing this to yourself. You don't have herpes on your arm. And wearing a condom protects no one from an arm. See where im going here? Deep breath and rational thinking.
At this point you both should get tested and see where your at. This will be my last post until you test.
Thank you and have a great day.
No. Igm are really worthless and your igg is negative. No worries