There is no risk here. The skin on your neck is too thick for the virus to penetrate.
Also, a stripper is no more likely to have oral hsv1 than anyone else is. 67% of people under 50 have it globally. That includes dancers, strippers, and sex workers, as well as "regular people".
You might already have it, as 90% of those with oral hsv1 never get symptoms.
I wouldn't worry about this at all. I would, however, consider some kind of therapy if you can't stay away from strip clubs.