I have been dealing with strange symptoms for the past few months and am trying to figure out if they are herpes related or not. I have seen several doctors who have not equated them to herpes based on their duration (and the lack of visible sores or lesion), but I am not 100% convinced. Symptoms include: vulvar and vaginal redness, occasional burning discharge, irritation and redness of the perineum and anal area, occasional itching in the anal area. There is also some discomfort when urinating, but not consistently. I have one or more of these issues on a daily basis several weeks. I have also had other issues arise intermittently such as fatigue, tingling, and some muscle twitching, but I am not sure if those were due to the same problem or if they were from anxiety in dealing with this extremely stressful situation.
Additional information: Doctors have tried treating for BV, yeast, and strep B. No relief. I have had gonorrhea and chlamydia tests done twice, both negative. I had an HIV and the HerpeSelect Igg test done at 14 weeks after contact with a person who is believed to have herpes. (Person did not tell me about herpes until later and never has had a blood test, but thinks had an outbreak once 4 years ago.) All results from my tests came back negative.
My questions are: Do these symptoms sound like they could be herpes related? How reliable are the HerpesSelect tests at 14 weeks? If it is not herpes, any ideas of what else this could be?
I am very frustrated and down due to the lack of information. I have been unable to focus on anything else in my life right now besides the discomfort and unease of not knowing what's going on. So, thanks in advance for any help you may be able to provide.