Ok cool. Looks like you are in the clear then. I was just on the side of caution but if your doctor says ok you are probably fine.
Thanks for the quick response Jerry! I went to the doctor and showed her my cold sore. She mentioned that because it's past the scanning stage and I've been taking Valtrex, it's no longer contagious.
No, you will still have a higher probability to spread until the scab is completely gone, even a couple of days or so afterword. My advice would be to forgo kissing (I know it's hard being your anniversary and all) and oral. (Though if you do use a condom.)