Hello Again, I hope this is my last post before I get swab results back; I know I should just wait, but the uncertainty is making me completely crazy. I have a question about whether genital HSV could be transmitted via fingering or momentary superficial contact. Specifically (and I apologize for the graphic detail, but I really want information!):
1) If my partner happened to be having a genital outbreak (I don't think he was, but it was dark) or asymptomatically shedding, momentarily touched his penis (to adjust himself, not to masturbate), and then fingered me, could that transmit the virus? If it is even theoretically possible, would he have had to make solid contact not just with his penis, but directly with an open sore, in order for that to occur?
I know that the virus only lives about 10 seconds once it's out of its "zone," but it probably wouldn't take 10 whole seconds to move his hand from his penis to my vaginal area.
2) I have read that generally at least some degree of rubbing/friction is necessary to transmit the virus. If the tip of my partner's penis (on which I felt no bumps of any kind) came into superficial contact with my vaginal area for a brief second while he was repositioning himself, is there a risk of exposure in that?
I simply cannot recall every movement that my partner or I made, but the enounter I am concerned about (described in my previous post
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Herpes/HSV1-HSV2-Transmission/show/2682998#post_12987185) involved significant reciprocal mouth-genital and hand-genital contact, but not genital-genital contact (I think none, but now that I am replaying it I just can't remember if there was a split-second touch). I understand that this poses an HSV-1 risk, but I had not considered the fingering or the possible "switch-positions" contact to be a risk and now I am incredibly worried about any possible risk for HSV-2 transmission.
Thank you, and I apologize for so many questions before I even have results, but I am beyond my ability to tolerate the anxiety at this point.