i contracted herpes like a year ago... well thats when i found out... anyway.. i have never had an outbreak or so much of a sore at all... its like i dont even have it.. which is good.. but i was wondering what is the likely hood of me giving it to someone else when giving head... and wearing condoms... i was also wondering if there is a dating sight that you know of that i can find someone who has herpes.. its just much easier with someone who understands it..