ok i had oral sex about 2 months ago with another male! there was no ejaulation involved! soon after thAT 2 days later i started to burn during urination got tested for chlymydia and gonnorhea AND BOTH came back neagative im now convinced i have herpes i have this burning feeling in my mouth and my throat and sonetimes it feels like A LUMP is in my throat kinds hard for me to swollow at times and i was wondering if this could be herpes????