ok so i recently found out that my partner has genital herpes and is taking medication for it. she has mentioned that she wishes to perform oral sex on me but i am unsure as i dont wanna risk contracting herpes from her keep in mind she has no oral herpes just genital if she performs oral sex on me can i still get herpes or no also keep in mind we have never had sex at all this would be our first time and shes only wanting to give me oral nothing else