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pleas help im going crazy with fear
Was with someone that was haveing a outbreak we had sex fast like 10 min I wore a condom. I thought it was heat rash sht told me after it was hsv2. Do I have any hope. I cant sleep eat drink pick my nose rub my eyes. I have even ben. Puting my ciggs on a straw so I dont touch my lips. I cant sit down I feel like my heart is going to stop.
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Even during an active outbreak, usually HSV is not transmitted. I agree many ER docs are not herpes experts, and her "big trouble" comment wasn't justified. She also seems to not know about the research that shows that taking acyclovir after exposure does not prevent infection. The only possible effect is to delay onset of symptoms and to make later diagnosis more difficult. I suggest you find more expert care (like your local health department STD clinic, a Planned Parenthod clinic, etc) then follow their advice about treatment, follow-up, and maybe later testing for HSV.
Ok so I may have lied just a little on her telling me that she had herpies. I asked her and she said no. I just figured she was lieing so I went stright to herpies in my head. good news is I looked up pics of herps and they look nothing like what I saw. This is some crapy roller coaster ride. So she olney had red scabs on her butt none on her vjj they were about dime and nickel sized spaced about 1" apart not blochy just Circle oval shaped none were small and nothing in between. Bad news I had sex with her so I guess im still on this rollercoaster nightmare. She was big and it may have ben heart rash bec its hot out. Sticking to the same plan appoment on the 28 th.
I took 2 sleeping pills and im still up. Im still to much in panic mode to sleep just doing research on my situation.
I go it ! A plan im going to make a appointment tomorrow to see another dr. One that I can work with through this whole thaing. Im going to tell my wife I have kidney stones or something like that and it hutrs me verry much to do anything sexually. I will lookup good reasons to not have sex. If I have to tell her I will but till then sompthing is killing my little guy to much to play.
I shouldent be here in the first place im married 15 years my wife will be home in 2 weeks and she will want to have sex that night. Im so scard. I am thanking of hurting my sealf break a leg ro something to avoid sex with her. This is to much for me. I need to know now.
Based on what I read in this forum... The likelihood of outbreak is 2-20 days.... But then again, I read many posts where people have it much later but it maybe that they mad really mild outbreak ( not sure what that means thou). So the actions you need to do is listed in my previous post .... Do them and if by 16 weeks... U have no outbreak and blood test negative... Then u r really home free but I will like other more experienced moderators confirm as I am also very new to this :(
Hope u get a good night of sleep.. I been taking sleeping pills to be able to sleep so that might help too.
In the mean time, go read about the herpes hand book that grace post link to. Even if everything is neg ,..... Then you learned something about the virus for your future safety so u won't have to come back to the forum again :).
Good luck and we support each other!
Hope u get a good night of sleep.. I been taking sleeping pills to be able to sleep so that might help too.
In the mean time, go read about the herpes hand book that grace post link to. Even if everything is neg ,..... Then you learned something about the virus for your future safety so u won't have to come back to the forum again :).
Good luck and we support each other!
Also I quit taking the meds the doc gave me. Pleas. Stay in contact with me im so scard.i wish I could just go into a coma for a while.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
