Please help me! Men don't last with me

[lolo711]

I am a woman and I have been experiencing a problem for the past two years. So I am going to ask the gentlemen reading this to help me out. For some reason, the men I have dated in the past four years or so cannot seem to last in bed with me. These are men that I date for some time, not one night stands. They all apologized profusely and said that it was just too good but I do not believe this could possibly be a valid reason. I had relationships before (engaged, married) where this was never a problem. But the last four men I dated, they could not last five minutes. Not even three minutes. And, yes, I realize four men in four years might be too many, but I would stay with one if he could just last. I understand the first few times but EVERY time for months? It gets to the point where I would rather not bother. All of these guys were nice and the relationships were otherwise happy. Please tell me some possible reasons for this phenomenon. I am wondering if I should just tone down my behavior in bed, but I already have and it has not worked. Thank you for your honest opinions.

[NOHARD]

Sorry for the questions, just clearing the way forward, but it seems your guys have all got PE premiture ejectulation, not good, its all in there minds and they can see what they want before it happens, and thats it away it go's, so its not you its them, the only thing I can recamend is to get your last guy edging, its an exercise to help incress his time before ejeculating, he can find this on pegym.
Do hope this helps.
Good Luck

[lolo711]

Perhaps I am phrasing this wrong. The guys stick around and keep going .They keep saying they are going to do it ALL NIGHT, but they can't.  I am aggravated that each round is so fast! And they seem embarrassed, constantly apologizing and trying to satisfy me otherwise. I doubt it is any odor because they are all happy to perform oral sex. I am not forward in bed. I am submissive. Now, to add injury, one of the guys I just started seeing is an ex of my friend. and she told me he could go all night. I have been with him maybe six times and he basically finished before he started and we had to kind of wait and try again. He says, as did the last three, that it's" too exciting", particularly after he receives oral. This is getting to the point where I want to grind up Viagra and put it in their drinks. Maybe I should just lie there.

[NOHARD]

O boy, you do pose some difficult questions, first 4 men in 4 years, I would say not to many, even 4 men in a year would bo ok, 4 men in 4 weeks I say would count as to many, but then whos counting?
As for your in bed actions, as we dont know you or just what you do in bed cant answer that one, are you forward in bed, some men dont like that, then some men do, so you can work that one out.
ie dont take charge, let them lead the way.
A question that must be asked, do you have ant personal problems, I'm trying to be nice here, body odours as some can be put off by these and some would just love that ok
Any help? but then I've been married for the past 40+ years.
Good Luck, but please come back and we can see if we can work on this.