erection problems

[jack445]

I have been married for 46 years.  15 to 20 years ago I started having erectile problems, tried help from the doctors, that did not work.  So 5 years ago I decided to look at porn on the net to try and get an erection, I was going crazy trying to please my wife fully. (I love her very dearly )  I made an almighty big mistake I did not tell her I was looking at porn. and now she dose not believe that I went on line just to try and get my erections started again. I am devastated, ashamed, disgusted with myself for what I have done, not only to us, but all the family.  we are very close to divorce,I am attending therapy at the moment.  HAS ANY OTHER MAN LOOKED AT PORN FOR THIS REASON??.
I would be grateful for any comments.  

[Myron_Long]

your wife doesn't want a divorce because you watch porn. she wants a divorce because you watch porn AND she is not being sexually satisfied. so if you go back to sexually satisfying her, she will re-consider the marriage.

[Sash83]

Hello ,
if it is comforting for you - yes.
I need to tell you that you are not the only one having this issue at this age.
These things are normal and  actually part of normal civilization.
If you ask me it would be horrible if your wife leaves you.
Quite frankly if your wife leaves you for something like that and does not show understanding and willingness to help you, she is off my people list.
And therapy ? - what kind of therapy ? why even!
in your position i can offer a few suggestions.
First and foremost, find a devoted doctor!
you still have sex left in you!
Second, you should look at some not so conventional methods of solving this issue.

For policy reasons i cannot provide you with some of the products that i hear, are safe and work in my opinion.
You can drop me a message and i can provide you with what i know.

If this helps, i would have done my good deed for the day.  

Bye and good luck.