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my boyfriend can never ejaculate without porn
Both my boyfriend and I are 18 years old. We are both experiencing sex for the first time together, however I have found that he is unable to ejaculate with me...neither during intercourse or through foreplay.
He insists on playing porno movies because this is the only way he can come.
It frustrates and upsets me that he cannot find pleasure with just me, that he needs porn (and not just porn..but ANIME porn) to stimulate him.
I've thought a lot about this, and wonder if the problem is that he has spent too long ejaculating with porn in the past because he has never had sexual contact with anyone before me.
Is there anything I can do??? He tells me he loves me, and he is always getting me to give him head...but no ejaculation occurs.
Ive also noticed that he tends to get ME to dominate most of the time..it is always me who ends up on top for the longest period.
Please can anyone offer me some advice? I want to fix this before it puts a strain on our relationship.
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He insists on playing porno movies because this is the only way he can come.
It frustrates and upsets me that he cannot find pleasure with just me, that he needs porn (and not just porn..but ANIME porn) to stimulate him.
I've thought a lot about this, and wonder if the problem is that he has spent too long ejaculating with porn in the past because he has never had sexual contact with anyone before me.
Is there anything I can do??? He tells me he loves me, and he is always getting me to give him head...but no ejaculation occurs.
Ive also noticed that he tends to get ME to dominate most of the time..it is always me who ends up on top for the longest period.
Please can anyone offer me some advice? I want to fix this before it puts a strain on our relationship.
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Hello!
I am no expert, but I do agree with Admirer regarding the fact that your bf is used to watching porn. that's all there is to it. He ought to stop watching porn and maybe even stop masturbating on his own. Since he is relatively young, it'll be a challenge for him to stop masturbating for a week even, but if he achieves this, you'll be able to make him *** in no time.
If he doesn't even then, or if he isnt able to stop masturbating, he ought to seek medical help (either doctor or psychiatrist)
Take care
I am no expert, but I do agree with Admirer regarding the fact that your bf is used to watching porn. that's all there is to it. He ought to stop watching porn and maybe even stop masturbating on his own. Since he is relatively young, it'll be a challenge for him to stop masturbating for a week even, but if he achieves this, you'll be able to make him *** in no time.
If he doesn't even then, or if he isnt able to stop masturbating, he ought to seek medical help (either doctor or psychiatrist)
Take care
Don't dominate him, let him use the muscles around his pelvic region. Its important because he can't ejaculate unless those pelvic muscles are not in action. If he really love you ask him to stop watching porno. If he can't ejaculate then its better to end sex without ejaculation. Its not your fault, his ejaculation is linked with porno. Its kind of a stimulus for his ejaculation. Unless he don't get rid of porno, doesn't seem like he can do well. He needs to see a psychiatrist. Thank you!
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