I agree with both of the last postings, I think you two have to talk it out and maybe consider counseling. This is something you can’t go through alone, you can but why would you choose to? Let him know what you feel and let him tell you what he feels without judgments from either side and without getting frustrated. It's important to keep your relationship strong; especially if this is the someone you love and want to have children with. I wish you the best. It's good that you are letting this out and getting advice from people on the outside, this is after all what counseling really is about, they'll just want you two to talk to each other not at each other, and you know what I mean. Best of luck ok
Hopeful K
so sorry. you two have to talk. sometimes it will only come out during an argument. it took my husband almost a year to finally lose it. he cried a lot at the first loss but not so much for the other 2. finally one day he just let it go. it is normal to feel guilt or point fingers. but without your relationship there will be no lovely baby. just let it bubble over and move on as soon as you can. i wish you the best.
i am so sorry you had to go through this. perhaps you can try couples counseling???
with every decision there can be regrets. You shouldn't feel bad because you did what was right in your heart. You can't blame youself for doing what you felt was right, even if you have changed your mind.
best wishes.