sex after miscarriage..?

[monaettc]

i recently had a miscarraige at 8weeks, il say about 3 weeks from now...im desperately wanting to try again ive heard that you are more fertile after a miscarriage is this true? has anyone had a miscarriage tried again and got pregnant in no time, if so how long did it take?

[annaleesmom]

me too.  =(.

[shannic]

My doctor told me I had to wait 4 months to try again to build my blood up.I do not know much about when to try again after miscarriage I guess it all depends on how you miscarried and the reason if there are any.I cried the first time I had sex after my miscarriage.I feel some days I want to and there are somedays I dont.

[annaleesmom]

my doctor told me that I should wait 8-12 weeks.  he said that The chances of miscarrying again are high if you don't wait.  

I was told I would miscarry on sept 28th.  I actually lost the sac on the 30th.  I bed heavily for a bit.  the weekend it tapered off.  then on Oct 5th I bled heavily again.  I really havent been bleeding for a couple of days, but I have that icky brown discharge.  (sorry tmi).  anyway, I've been thinking about sex again.....  I don't really feel the desire and for some reason I think it may be painful.????  The thing is I have such a good man (even though I have been kind of frustrated with him).  He is so good.  I want to keep him and recognize his desires and needs.  I feel each person has to sacrifice somewhat for the other.  He puts me before himself so much!  I just don't feel into it.  I feel kind of nasty and discusting down there.  What if it is messy?  

emotionally, are you ladies ready for sex?