worriedtobemum

[hunybunz]

Im 5 weeks pregnant and have had numerous ammount of miscarrages in the past... Iv recently had to have an emergency scan and they said everything is fine but theirs still that doubt in the back of my mind that i cant seem to let go.. Is their any advice i could get on how to do positive thinking as everythin iv tried doesnt work..

[rach301]

Hello hunybunz

I have experienced 2 miscarriages in a row and i have no children.

When you have re-current miscarriages it strips away any enjoyment of any future pregnancy. This is my opinion and i feel angry that this joy will never be a part of my  future pregnancy. I am too scared to feel the bond, to love and to start dreaming.

I almost started dreaming on my 2nd pregnancy and it never worked out. In your situation, i would advise u to keep busy, and take each day as it comes, it wont be easy, and u will have off days. In theses times u can only have hope and faith. U  have a good chance of this being successful, even after lots of miscarriages, so try not to be too scared.

i wish u all the luck in the world and happiness. May all ur dreams come true, us ladies have been through enough.

x x x

[AshleyDMcCaig]

I feel similar to you, I've only had one miscarriage and I'm always thinking that I could miscarry again and it worries me sooo much. But, I sit and rub my stomach and kinda talk to the baby, it makes me feel better and if I ever feel like something too serious is wrong, I'll either call my OB or I'll go to the E.R just to make sure that nothing is really wrong... Talk to your bf, husband and maybe he can help you feel a bit better about it, my boyfriend always tries to stay positive for me, which is funny because on other topics I'm the optimist and he's the pessimist. :-P