It won't 'show your family you are weak' if you go for counseling. Just go. It will save you from a lot of unnecessary pain and worry. I felt a lot more normal after talking with the counselor. Not happy or ignoring that this sad thing had happened, but like a human being again instead of being whipped around at the end of the dog's tail.
Well when i first lost the baby i was in hospital every 2 days havin bloods done to check that my hormone levels had gone down which they did and i had an internal exam and swabs they said my cervix was closed which was good n nothing came back on the swabs et im still losin tissue the pain is so bad its spread to my back i hope they find something on the scans yes i have heard of.this my doctor said.they should have offered me a D&C cos i was 8weeks but i had to do it natural :( i think your.right i didnt want to admit it i feel so weak and im usually such a strong person goin to counciling and not been able to cope wil jus show my family how weak i am and i dont want that
Honey, please see a grief counselor. I did, in similar circumstances, and it really helped. She was covered by my HMO, and specialized in fertility issues. It made a big difference. It's not like everything was suddenly OK or the bad thing had not happened, but I was not crying all the time any more, and that helped me feel like I was not crazy. More than likely if you still have some placental tissue, you also still have a big hormone load, and that is what is making you feel so unlike yourself. Ask the doctor if a D&C is called for. Good luck!!!!!