Wishing

[carebear0202]

Hi I was a part of the December 08 babies team, but I had an ectopic and had emergency surgery on april 27th and lost my left tube. It was terrible... I still have not had AF. I stopped bleeding from the surgery around May 7th.. and nothing since. My husband and I have been trying again ever since May 10th when my doc gave me the okay... and nothing but negative preg tests! Without having my period...I always think that maybe the test will be positive...I am making myself a bit crazy with all this. I guess  I am not ovulating right? No period...no egg?  My doctor tells me to relax that my body was in severe trauma and I lost alot of blood. Having a hard time doing that ya know what I mean? I am still so sad somedays...I hope I get lucky and the chance to do it again! I hope we all do...just the hardest thing to go through! I really want AF to visit!!!! She just has too! What do you think my doctor can do if my period never comes on its own? I wish I could just be normal again with another shot at pregnancy...

[Latrice414]

  Im so sorry for your loss, i understand the feeling.  Had missed m/c june 12th and d&c on the 17th.  Im waiting on AF too, not to conceive yet but i wana make sure i get two normal cycles before we ttc again.  I hope AF comes for you, and yes, your body has been threw a lot, i wanted to try after first cycle, but emotionaly im not ready.  Ive heard some women on here say there dr gave them provera, it was suppose to help there AF come then they stopped it after there AF came.  I ll keep you in my prayers, rest &relax

[Tiger63]

Hi, it's so terrible what you had to go through. I really hope you start to lift soon. As hard as it may sound, your doctor is right. What your body and mind has been through is very traumatic. Your body may need some time to adjust and prepare for another preganacy. I hope you can relax enough and allow your AF to come.

I have a very irregular cycle. My doctor said the more I stressed the more likely it would come later. He said I had to relax and let mother nature take over.

I hope your AF comes soon. My thoughts are with you.

Take care xoxo