Here's the story...
Couple days ago, i was shuffling porn on the internet. I used to do that alot. I was looking for "**'s", and suddenly, a gay intercourse photo pops up before my eyes. Ofc, my first response was wtf, but then i realized that i kinda hesitated to turn it of for a split-second, and the image got stuck in my head. I've managed to masturbate imagining women, but it made me worried. You see, I have no problem being aroused by women, I gladly think about that. But, there are other issues. I had a gay thought, just a thought before, and i succsesfully repressed it. It considered my best friend. The other day, I was looking at his wrist, and i felt this strange feeling, which made me try to chase off the thought and the feeling, so I went home, couldnt sit in a bar with my pal anymore. So the images started, and luckilly I found out about hocd, and that made me feel better since I can't be gay. I love this girl, or at least I'm obsessed with her, but i do get a lot of obsessions.So I manage to control images, but then again, I have to go to the university, and there are lots of my male friends there. I have never had a problem standing next to those guys before, joking with them, shaking hands, and now i do. I had sex with a woman before, and that was when i was 19, and she was 32 at the time, and it was great, but when her boyfriend found out it became hell. So I didn't get to date, and then this girl i really love hurt my feelings when we had this fight, She was also in a relationship you know, and that made me desperate. I have had several attempts to become friendly with girls and allow something to develop, and I would sleep with all of them, but I wouldn't have relationship with them. Men in this sense never interested me, and now I can't even shake hands with them because of this...hell. I've told my mom and dad, they want to help, but where I live we don't have doc's like in U.S. I can't even embrace gay lifestyle because I live in a conservative society, and there are no gay people 'round here, and I don't want to watch gay porn, and I don't wan't to test anything. I've stopped masturbating and watching porn, but I constantly read about these issues. Above all, I wanna get married, have kids, live a life I always wanted to live...only, how I'm going to do that when I'm so low on self-esteem, and depressed, and now get this strange feeling in my lower spine and groins when I look at the men. I'm conteplating suicide, I wan't to cry, I can't even look at my brothers...imagine that...brothers! The most horrible "visions" happened to me yesterday, but now they're gone. My dad organized me a meeting with a doc, and he insists on goin' to church, but I kinda lost my faith due to too many dissapointments. I did pray, curse, shout, cry...laugh like a maniac...Oh, and i have recently found out that one of my former friends is gay. I was shocked to a certain extent, but he was always slightly feminine and wasn't interested in male stuff. On the other hand, I was always a military style, agressive like person who used to like sports, used to go to gym and lead a typically male life. I was never tidy...See...it's killing me...i'm sorry for writing my autbiography here, but please, help me...Now i'm 26, and I don't think I'd be waiting this long to "come out" if I were gay. I never thought about it, and now...help me...please.