Hello, I am Matt and I am 19 years old. I thought sharing my experience would help a lot as I am going through another episode of OCD.
Let's start from the beginning: When I was a kid, I used to count tiles on the bathroom floor and when I was walking I used to fit a certain number of steps into each road segment (roads are divided by cracks, yeah faulty roads..) and such. I never made a lot out of it as it never caused me distress, other than maybe taking longer or shorter steps and my walking style looking a bit odd. I still do this, but not all the time. The worst part began when I had my first girlfriend. It goes like this: we were hanging out, a girl told me she liked me, I went to the bathroom where I acted like a schoolgirl out of joy and then we started dating. It was so good being with her, I was always aroused, even in public places, I would always literally c*me my pants while with her (pardon my language). One day she told me she loved me and I told her I loved her. Well, the next week I couldn't function, only when I was around her. When alone I could barely eat because my thoughts would eat my energy. I kept walking around the house and crawling, thinking that I don't love her, yes I do, no I don't and so on (you see the pattern). Finally I broke up with her and I felt really relieved, but only for a week. Then I started thinking I love her, no I don't, her name kept repeating itself in my head, bad depression and whenever I saw her I would get this weird bad feeling, a knot in my chest and stomach, it felt really bad (like panic and fear, I guess) and then I got depressed again. In time, it passed, I got used to it, until one day when I saw a good looking guy and I thought: wow, good looking guy. I experienced such panic and anxiety, I had the worst summer ever, I was depressed and the phrase "he's hot" would repeat itself a lot of times. I started thinking I was gay. Someday though, I found out about OCD and it's themes and boy was I relieved. I should mention I was never attracted to any male and I checked out gay porn and male erotica and I never get excited, I am not repulsed but somewhat uncomfortable. I even tried telling myself I am gay and accepting it, but it didn't fit and ultimately backfired. I only ever got excited over hetero smut and stuff like that. Thing is, I keep checking and checking when I'm out, just today I spent around 6-7 hours reading about OCD and checking to see if it did manifest itself in me. I should also mention that I am not homophobic, my parents and friends told me they would accept me anyway, but I do have very low self-esteem and I am really bad with the ladies, and I tried asking girls out but they all refused me. I mean, I think no girl wants me because I am fat and ugly (...), despite my intelligence, which I often doubt I have. Also, at a party I slept in the same bed with a girl and my Johnson was harder than wood, was a little embarrassing cause it kinda poked her back, but I felt so good. This happened twice. What is more, I have a friend who gets good results in school and I often try acting like him because that will result in good things for me as well. For example I wore a hoodie when I failed my driver's lic, since then I have worn the hoodie maybe once, out of fear that I will fail something else while wearing it. Was my favorite hoodie too. Damn.
So I hope this helps others, it helped me.
I really want your opinion, do you think I have some sort of OCD? I can't really go to therapy cause the only psychiatrist in my city is very expensive.
Thank you.