Hello,
I am a 39 year old mother of two young children. I had my first child in August of 2006 and my second in January of 2008. Overall, I've been a very healthy person involved in athletics all my life; ate very well with the exception of a couple years here and there (college and pregnancies).
Since I've had 2 kids very close together, I attributed my current state of health to being "out-of-shape". After I had my daughter, I had lower back pain. The pain is still here 17 months after my son so nearly 3 years. To try to get rid of it, I started a very stringent workout plan (6 days a week for at least an hour - some days lifting, some days cardio and yoga). After 6 weeks of this program, my dull lower back pain/tightness remains. Other symptoms, pain associated with intercourse, occasional sharp intestinal pain that I have to brace myself and breath through (occurs maybe once a month or so) and a few other symptoms as well. As far as elimination, I've struggled with that for years despite a high fiber diet.
So, I did some research on the internet and I'm finding scary stuff: ovarian cancer, intestinal cancer, rectal/anal cancer... I feel so remiss but really thought it was all associated with being out of shape. I'm still 15-20 pounds heavier than I was before babies but am working on that - I was pretty thin before babies so I would be very pleased with weighing 15 pounds less than I currently do today. I have a doctor's appointment in a couple weeks.
I guess I'm just feeling very worried and curious if it is warranted.
Thank you.