PATM cannot be transferred to other people. It's a problem you alone have.
Been in many (some long term) relationships and have never noticed my significant other “catching” PATM. Have had them react to my PATM unfortunately.
Are you missing question marks or is it a statement? I kept several times with different people and they did not present any symptoms so far, in fact it has been almost 2 years or more, still frequent with some.