somebody, anybody, tell me to chill outttt!! "/

[OctoberMommy2014]

I don't know what's wrong with me, but at 12w4d I simply just don't feel pregnant.

my nausea is gone (unless something triggers it.. chicken for example), boobs aren't killing me, not really feeling the light "cramps" in my belly anymore, etc. my fiancé swears (and I do see it) that I have a cute little belly already, I'm still super tired/sleepy all the time, certain things trigger heartburn..

idk, I just know I've read too many stories of women still having pregnancy symptoms even after they've miscarried.
I last saw our baby at 9w4d & 9w6d.. first time was in the ER, second was at my 1st OB appt.
[again, diagnosed with a Subchorionic Hemorrhage - I've seen NO dark brown blood since about 11w].
I'm just scared to death to go to our next appt. at 13w6d (next thursday) & NOT see/hear a heartbeat.

are there signs of a miscarriage at this point? am I not the only one freaking out?! lol -- I almost upset my fiancé when I talk/worry so I've avoided saying anything to him.. so here I am, seeking answers from you ladies.
sorry it's so long.. 25, ftm, freaking out.. thanks in advance for your responses!!
keep us in your prayers!! ❤

[Ooolala1988]

Yes, you should bring it up to your ob. I've heard of it but not sure what exactly it is. I think it's pretty common though if I'm not mistaken?

[OctoberMommy2014]

I've thought about running to the ER too! but my fiancé isn't having that lol
he swears I just need to relax, have faith, and I'm stressing way too much.. which I know isn't good for the baby either, but geez!! all signs are good.. no pain, bleeding, etc. but I just need reassurance!

I'm thinking about getting a fetal doppler for home.. I'd be content with at least hearing the heartbeat every now & then!

[mckaylas_momma1018]

Chill out!! Everything is going to be okay. .. you dont have to have pregnancy symptoms in order to know that your pregnancy is healthy.  Consider yourself blessed because I would give anything to not have to deal with the crap I am dealing with... I am seriously sick of my doctor's office... not the doctor but since I have to go so often I am really sick of it! There are moments when I feel like I'm not pregnant (happened more during my 1st and 2nd trimester). You will get more peace of mind when you are able to feel your baby move... at 19 weeks I went to the ER because I was bleeding (had a UTI and didn't know it) and I was freaking out until my little girl woke up and started kicking me to tell me go chill out and that she was okay

[OctoberMommy2014]

ahhh I can't wait!! lol I know every single body is different, but as long as I have an estimate I feel a little better..

when I was in the ER though, not sure how accurate it is.. my OB hasn't addressed it yet.. but it said I had an anterior fundal placenta? I've looked it up, and apparently it just means my placenta is more up & towards the front of my uterus.. making it more difficult to feel movement early on.

just thought about that.. I need to bring that up next week!! ((:

[Ooolala1988]

Hm, I think I started feeling him move(flutters) at around 15-16ish weeks. Some people feel it sooner than others or later than others. It got stronger around 20ish or so weeks aaanddd it's amazing! :)

[emt29817]

I am 17w and if I didn't have this crazy belly which is bigger than the 2 other girls I know whom are both 17w I would be freaking out also. The last time I heard mines heart beat was 3 weeks ago and I ddon't have an appointment again til monday. I want to run to the er just to make sure everything I still ok but my hubby talks me out of it.